If you’ve contacted me recently for a session, you may have noticed there’s more to read these days. Yes, my booking emails are lengthier, but by putting in the effort to read them, you’re making our time together even better. Not taking the time to read will only hurt you.
It’s a few short paragraphs, but it’s all essential. I promise. Every line in my booking emails has been added due to a lack of understanding or knowledge I’ve encountered throughout my long and active career as a NYC Pro Domme. My goal is to make things smoother for both of us.
My time and experience as a FemDom have taught me many lessons. Sharpening my skills isn’t just about play. I’ve honed in on how to make sure the experience of going from finding me to seeing me as smooth as possible. Unfortunately for you, this does mean you need to read more.
My website is quite lengthy, so I understand the trepidation. The thing is, I admire the dedication of subs who take the time to learn who I am and what I want. Knowing you read all of the things I’ve taken the time to carefully reveal about my desires shows that you’re really interested in pleasing me.
Those booking emails should be light work for you after doing your research on me. If we’re a good fit, you’ve already read the main pages of my website as well as the important blogs like “First Session?“, “Don’t Be Fooled by Scammers” and “The Importance of a Thank You Note“.
I took the time to write it, you need to take the time to read it.
Serving me is hard, it takes dedication, devotion and a desire to make me happy. I’ve made it that much easier for you by writing it all down and sharing it freely on my blog. You’re welcome. Understanding my generosity is what makes you such a good sub.
I expect gratitude for the gift I’ve bestowed upon you. I demystified my interests, what I expect of you, and exactly how coming to give yourself to me will go. Well, right up until the play begins. That remains organic and spontaneous. I can’t plan all of that before we meet.
My emails are designed to reduce your worries, concerns and “the unknown”. Each step of the confirmation process is explained to you clearly. The steps have specific guidelines for you to follow. I’ve made it mistake-proof, if you read it.
I’ve said it a million times in a million different places that I’m only interested in seeing subs who are looking to see me specifically. I don’t have to fit all of your needs, but I do need you to feel I’m the right person for you. I will never be a fetish dispenser.
I started my career in a large New York City Dungeon. Most (not all) subs would come in with a specific interest and pick any mistress and expect the mistress to simply fulfill a checklist. It wasn’t about us as dommes, or even people. We were seen as fetish dispensers.
Someone once booked me a heavy rope session, and I told the phone girl that I didn’t know how to do rope bondage, so she tossed a book at me and told me I had 2 hours to learn.
Luckily, he no-showed, but it made me buy a book and try to learn rope bondage.
What I learned is that I only enjoy rope as a means to an end, not an art form. I’m not a heavy bondage mistress, and if you take the time to learn about me, you’ll realize that too.
I learned a lot and had the opportunity to try a lot of things that way, so it was great for learning what I like and what my style as a dominant would be. Which was wonderful when I was brand new. It’s of no use to me now.
Reading “all of that” is for your benefit. At the bare minimum, you need to thoroughly read my booking emails. In them, I outline each step in the booking and confirmation process for you. Yes, I also link blogs, but that’s because I don’t like repeating myself.
To that point, if you ask questions that have already been answered on my website, I will tap the sign and link you to the page/blog where the answer can be found, as I’m answering you. I’ll allow some of these to slide because we all have forgetful moments or we misread things. Don’t think it makes me dislike you.
I’d much rather that we handle these misunderstandings as early as possible. If something is unclear, its better to ask than move forward on a wrong assumption. Neither of us wants you to misread your confirmation directions and be punished later.
I have not missed the irony that I’m writing a blog for you to read, explaining why you need to read more. Just like my other blogs about what I expect and desire, this will serve as yet another sign for me to point to when someone does not read or laments the amount of reading.
I write it out and make it easily accessible so I don’t have to repeat myself, and you don’t have to worry about “unknown variables”. I’ll continue to add blogs and text to my website with each experience that demonstrates a need for the change. The same goes for the emails.
Life is about evolution and learning from mistakes. These emails and blogs will continue to be modified and updated to make them as helpful as possible. Reading them once may not be enough, especially the emails. Don’t skip reading the emails just because you read them the first time.
Am I right for you? Read to find out.
I know not every person who seeks an audience with me will be a good fit. That’s why I work so hard to put myself out there. Reading my website blogs and text won’t guarantee that we’re a good fit, but it’s a huge step in the right direction. I also know that I only enjoy playing with people who take the time to get to know my desires and requirements. Be the latter if you want to serve me.
