If you have a question, this is where to find the answer
I understand that my website is pretty prolific, and sometimes you just want a quick, clear answer to a question. This is your place for that.
I recommend this as a guide to help decide if you want to see me. If you do decide to book, you’ll still need to do more reading. A great place to start is my “First Session” blog. It walks you through the entire process from booking to arriving at my location.
Question: What’s your tribute?
Sorry, this is the only question I can’t answer here. I don’t post that online, You’ll need to send an email via my contact page to ask me directly.
Question: When are you available?
This varies. I generally prefer to session from the late morning to the evening. I do get up at the crack of dawn or play late into the night for those who book in advance.
It’s best to tell me a day of the week or a time of day that generally works best for you and I can match that with my availability.
Question: Do you ever come to _____ city?
I love to go on tour. I used to do a lot of long, multi-city tours, but these days I almost exclusively travel for FMTYs. If I don’t have something scheduled for your city, your best bet is to inquire about a FMTY or come to New York City.
Question: Do you ever session in NYC?
I know this may be a shock to you that a mistress who uses the moniker “NY Dominatrix” might session in New York City. I get asked this a surprising amount.
Let me be clear, I live in NYC. I have lived in NYC for over 20 years. I travel a lot, and I used to spend a lot of time in LA, but New York has always been my home base.
Question: Do I have to send a deposit?
Yes. Always. Every single time. It doesn’t matter how long we have known each other, or how reliable you have always been. I require deposits for ALL bookings.
I never hold any time in my schedule without a deposit. If you wait even a few hours to send the deposit, you risk losing the time slot.
Question: Can I send the deposit via _____ instead?
You may send the deposit via the method I told you to send it. I don’t choose these methods for no reason. I’ve been banned from some platforms, I refuse to risk others, and when I give you a command, it’s best to follow it.
Question: Can I make a wardrobe request?
Yes, you may. These are only requests, but if you ask for something I would enjoy wearing, I’ll be happy to do what I can to accommodate it.
Question: How far in advance do I need to book?
3-5 days is a good minimum, but I prefer about a week’s notice. Sometimes I don’t have time to check my emails for a few days, and I don’t want to miss your availability window because I didn’t get a chance to see your email.
Same-day booking are extremely rare, as I almost never have the availability to accommodate them.
Question: How long should I book for?
It’s no secret that I prefer longer sessions. I like to take my time and create a lot of build-up. I recommend a minimum of 90 minutes. If this is our first time playing together, 90min-2hrs is best. It’s long enough to get to know each other, but not too long if we don’t have the right chemistry.
Question: What do you offer?
For this, I’m going to recommend you take the time to read my site, not necessarily all the blogs, but at least the main pages. My bio tells you about me and my style, my sessions and interests pages explain the types of bookings I offer and what things I love and hate.
Question: Do you take online sessions?
Yes! I play on SextPanther, NiteFlirt and LoyalFans. I no longer accept cam sessions outside of these sites. When Skype ceased to be, I took that as the perfect time to stop offering cam in that format. I do not have Teams, and I will not be signing up for it.
IWantClips has recently launched video calling, so I’m open to trying them as well.
Question: Do you verify?
No. I’ve been active in the NYC FemDom scene 2009. I’ve had a large internet presence since 2010. I have no need to verify. I have an entire blog about how not to get scammed and how to know it’s me. I’ve done all that I can to help you; the rest is up to you.
Question: How can I book a session with you?
You need to email me. I stopped booking via phone call some years ago, and I never booked via text. Yes, my number can still be found on the internet. Most places you can find my number also claim I’m still 32 and live in LA. I did not make those ads, and I’m in an ongoing battle to get them taken down.
Do not even consider trying to book with me via DM. I only DM on paid platforms and discussing in-person play there will get us both banned. If someone is DMing you on a social platform, its a scammer. Report them.
Question: Can I text you once I have your number?
No. Never. I haven’t answered a text message since 2013. For years, when I posted my own number, I always said “texts will not be answered” next to it. If you can’t read all of the warnings not to text me, I have to assume that you’re illiterate. I’m not going to waste my time texting someone who can’t read.
Question: Where do you session?
I don’t have one space I’m tethered to, but my 2 favorite spots are in Manhattan. I have the option to use other spaces, but 99.9% of the time, you will see me in Manhattan. Location info is given during the confirmation process.
Question: What’s your cancellation policy?
Deposits are non-refundable. If you cancel at least 48hrs before your session, I will give you a 24hr window to book a new session. The new session must be scheduled to take place within 7 days of the original session.
If all of these markers are not hit, you will forfeit your deposit and need to start the booking process over. Missing a confirmation counts as a cancellation and will result in the forfeiture of your deposit.
Question: Do you accept same-day sessions?
Answer: Extremely rarely. If, by some miracle, you manage to find me on a day that I am able and willing to accommodate a same-day booking, I do require a higher tribute for the inconvenience and a minimum 3hr notice.
You can read more about same-day bookings in my blog “I HATE Same-Day Sessions“.
When I’m traveling outside of NYC is the only possible exception to this. If I’m staying in the same place that I’m taking my sessions, I might have an unfilled timeslot I can slip you into.
I hope this has been helpful in your decision of whether or not to book me. If you think I might be a good fit for you, I definitely recommend doing some more reading. I can tell when someone has not put in the effort to research me. It pleases me greatly when you have taken the time to make sure I’m the right mistress for you before approaching.
