There are plenty of Mistresses out there who like same-day sessions. There are probably a bunch right here in NYC. However, I’m not one of them – my preference is that sessions be booked at least 24 hours in advance. Wanna see me happy? Book 7 days out. Do you want to make me wet? Book a month out.
Sure, this isn’t news; everyone knows I like advance bookings. I love having notice and planning time. I will (rarely) accept same-day bookings, but the tribute will reflect my inconvenience.
I think it’s time I explain my resentment toward same-day bookings. I understand your reasoning for them, but I need you to understand my reasoning against them.
Why I feel this way about same-day sessions
Let me start by saying that this is all my personal preference. As I said, some people like same-day play. I can see their point of view, I just don’t feel the same.
I like to know my schedule in advance. It leaves me the space to be spontaneous and avoid being irresponsible. I can’t do a same-day caning if I have an impromptu brunch with my friends. I can’t even do a same-day boot worship session if I’m out and about in the city, wearing sandals.
If I know before I start my day that you want to worship my smelly socks later, I’ll make sure to wear my smelliest sneakers when I’m going about the rest of my day. The benefits are in your favor.
Advance planning is good for everyone. I have the time to plan and pack all the things I need to dominate you the way I want to. You have a guarantee that I’ll be prepared and my time is available to you.
Would you rather see a mistress who is excited and has anticipated your time together or a mistress who’s stressed, rushing, and possibly ill-prepared? I want to give you my best.
Aside from social plans, I do a lot of longer sessions. I love them. I can only do one of those a day. I’m not squeezing in a spur-of-the-moment one or two-hour session after 6-8 hours of play. I’m exhausted and I’m not in the headspace to totally switch gears.
If I have a session longer than four hours booked, I’m not booking anything else that day. If you wanted that day, you should have reached out sooner. The first to the table is best fed.
I get that some people can’t plan ahead. I understand. You can’t plan when you’ll be horny or have a chance to escape for a few hours. Perhaps if you book in advance you will get too scared from the anticipation and chicken out. I could be accommodating to that, but I won’t. Those differences can mean that we aren’t a match. If you truly want to see me, you will follow my rules to do it.
Pre-pandemic, I used to schedule “same-day session days”. I kept my schedule clear and would spend the day in the dungeon in Manhattan. I made myself available just in case you needed a spontaneous session. It was a ton of fun.
I’m not saying I’ll never offer that again, but I wouldn’t expect one anytime soon. I have too many scheduled sessions and other things going on to spend all day sitting in an NYC dungeon waiting for you. Consider it another casualty of the pandemic until I choose to bring it back.
To be honest, for the most part, I consider same-day booking requests to be rude, entitled, and inconsiderate. There’s an expectation that my time is there, available to you and I’m happy to jump to your demand.
Even worse is if you want to see me same-day and you aren’t willing to come into New York City to see me. I’m not traveling to see someone who doesn’t respect my time enough to book in advance.
Being able to accept a last-minute request requires a lot of me. First and foremost, I need to be “free”. That’s a loaded query. I may not have a session booked but I probably have other plans for that time.
I might be meeting friends, having a hair appointment, or recovering from a twelve-hour session the day before. All of these are equally important to me. Asking me to cancel any of them for you is selfish.
Same-day Session get tributed as the inconvenience they are
I realize when you can only book same-day, you don’t intend any disrespect, you require an added convenience to be able to session. That’s fine, If I choose to see you, I require an added tribute for the inconvenience to me.
Same-day sessions have a “rush fee” added to the total tribute. This fee varies by how inconvenienced I am in accepting your request.
Very rarely, I can accommodate these bookings. However, I do require a minimum three-hour notice. I don’t live in the dungeon and I own far more gear than I would bring to any one session. I need time to pack my bag, travel to the dungeon, and get set up. That is non-negotiable.
Late-night sessions need more warning. Once my makeup is off and I’m in pajamas, I’m not leaving the house. You missed your chance.
I understand that this leaves the option to request a same-day session. That’s fine, you may ask. I never promise an answer or one that you’ll like.
However, I need you to keep in mind you’re asking for something that is, at the bare minimum, inconvenient. You may send one email. Badgering me to respond to you and trying to bargain with me does not increase your chances of me responding.
If I’m unavailable, I’m unavailable. That’s it. If I didn’t respond to your first email, I was probably not checking my email, because I was busy. When I do see all of your emails, I will be even less likely to see you in the future.
At the end of the day, I may not be the mistress for you, or our time together may have to wait for when the timing is right. There are plenty of ways to play with me util them. We can build trust and anticipation through distance training. You can also purchase my videos to watch me when I’m not around.
Calling or sexting with me may not be the dream you had of out play, but I promise it will hold you over. If I’m not in NY at the time, you can follow along on wherever I am through my fan club.
Same-day sessions are mostly available on tour.
The exception to these rules is when I am traveling. When I’m on tour, or outside of NYC at all, all bets are off. Each city has its own set of booking rules. A lot of times, on tour I accept things I don’t accept at home in New York.
On the road, I am always ready for sessions. My hair is done, my make-up is on and my gear is already packed and ready to go. It’s all the things I need for on-the-spot sessions. If I’m not already booked.
I’m also much less likely to have personal engagements or be taking time off. Same-day bookings are rare because I’m usually heavily booked, but I will do whatever I can to squeeze in more play on tour since I’m not always in that city.
When you book your session in advance, there’s a lot I can do to make sure we have the best possible scene. I can make sure we have the perfect dungeon for our play, and I can leave time before and after for me to be able to provide my best to you.
Planning ahead says a lot about the care and preparation you’re putting into our play. It also shows a lot of respect for me and my time. I love that. So book in advance and we will both have the best time possible.
