This blog is for the newbies and novices out there. You’ve come to the right mistress. I love an advanced and well-seasoned player as much as the next mistress, but I also get a particular kind of joy from playing with novices.
I’ve been playing as Pro Domme in NYC since 2009. I’ve seen a wide variety of skill levels. Someone who knows exactly what they like and can take really intense play is super hot. However, testing the waters with a newbie and watching them unlock their kinks in front of you is also a special experience.
Both types of players are showing me a tremendous amount of trust. The experienced player is asking to go hard and heavy, which takes a lot of skill. They would know; they’ve likely played with a variety of skill levels over the years.
Novices are trusting me to help them enter a new world. They may not know yet what to look for in a dominant or how to find what they need. It can be scary exploring new things – especially since the things are not casually or openly found in the wild.
I consider it an honor when novices or newbie come to see me for their first session. I’m happy to be your introduction to the world of seeing professional dommes. I take that position very seriously.
When novices choose me for their first experience with a Professional Dominatrix, I know it’s my responsibility to help them find what they’re looking for. I want to leave you with a fond memory of submitting.
All seasoned players were once novices.
I’m skilled and talented, but I’m not a one-size-fits-all. Sometimes when I receive requests from new subs, I turn them away. I want you to have the best experience. That’s not always going to be with me.
My kinks may not be your kinks or vice versa. That’s perfectly okay. We need to admit that upfront. Merely having experience and skill is not enough to make us a good fit.
Before you reach out to see me at home in NYC, or when I’m in your city, it may be a good idea to get to know me online. I’m on a plethora of platforms. Starting with my website is, of course, best.
I keep my site up-to-date and filled with valuable information. I don’t care for subs who have not done their research. We all have different styles, skills, and levels of experience in our preferred areas.
To make sure we’re a good fit, you’ll want to begin by reading my Interests and FAQ pages. Then move on to my most essential newbie blogs: “First Session?“, “Don’t Be Fooled By Scammers” and “Clips Will Never Be the Same as Sessions“.
I want those who submit to me to refer to me as “Ms. De Luca”. I am a unique experience, and what we have together is organic. It’s based on our personal chemistry.
Once you have read my website, I recommend you find an online avenue to get to know me better before booking. I use a number of websites for this type of play. CallElena.com, TextElena.com, and AdmireElena.com are for direct contact with me.
I accept phone calls, video calls, text/picture/video/voice messages on these sites. I’m happy to chat about our day-to-day lives or dive straight into a role-playing a fantasy on these platforms.
The only thing we can’t do on these platforms is talk about meeting in person. That can get us both banned from the platform. If you ask me about an in-person session on one of these sites, I’ll give you one warning, and then I’ll be forced to block you for a 2nd offense.
I love chatting about mutual interests and what our play together may be like. As long as it’s kept to “fantasy”, online platforms are a low-stakes way for a novice or an experienced player to feel out my session style and build trust.
Another way to get to know my style of play is to watch my videos. I have my clips available on ElenaDeLucaFetish.com, AdmireElena.com and IWantClips. You can learn more about those sites on my video page.
I’ve been making clips since 2011. Clips4sale has my largest and longest-running catalogue of clips. There, you can see the full evolution of my interests and personal style.
Clips are not the same as sessions, and you should never worry that I’ll record our session. Our time together will always be private, intimate and unique to our chemistry.
Don’t let the videos scare you. Take note that I film a wide variety of content. Don’t be afraid to see me because you saw one video with extreme ballbusting or judicial caning. Open your eyes and look at all the options in my stores.
I contain multitides. I’m a sadist, but I believe pain and suffering are unique to the person experiencing them. It’s all about how you receive my words and actions, not the specific words or actions. Limiting myself like that would be so boring!
I want you to be able to trust that I want you to take you to your personal limits. Not right away either. I like to start slow and build up. Build-up is kind of my favorite tool.
I’m more excited by the journey than the destination. Taking novices through a journey of discovering what feelings and sensations they love and fear is exhilarating. I love seeing that look in your eye when you try something you’ve been dreaming of for so long.
Novices, Newbies and Long-Time Players are all welcome.
Complete newbies, novices and seasoned players, I want to play with you. Experience lends many things to a scene, but the thrill of something new has its own glory.
Take the plunge, send the email and schedule the session. The only way to move from novice to experienced sub is to take the journey. You may find things you don’t like along the way, or you may discover things you had never considered before. The only way to know is to get started.
I look forward to getting your introductory email soon.
